Where Did All These Weeds Come From?
Where did all of these weeds come from? Who planted them? It hasn't even rained in months! You mean weeds grow even when there's no rain?How many of us have out-of-control weeds in our gardens? And who is responsible for those weeds? There is only one reason weeds grow out of control in a garden — because no one took the proper time and care to uproot and remove them.
When the garden is choked by weeds, the gardener can’t complain, 'I just don’t know how this happened! How did this occur right under my nose?' It occurred because someone was being irresponsible with her garden. If she’d been exercising the proper amount of diligence, she would have known that weeds were about to get the best of her. Her lack of diligence is the reason her garden got into this mess!
Hebrews says 'Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled.' (Hebrews 12:15)
The phrase 'looking diligently' is translated from a compound greek word episkopos which means taking supervisory oversight. This is an important piece of information because God holds us responsible for our emotions and our thinking.
It's like weeds. They start out so small they are almost unnoticeable. If not controlled, they will grow exponentially and before you can say 'lickity-split' they are six feet tall!
Emotions are like that. Anger is an emotion that comes and goes. I choose whether or not irritation turns into anger, anger into wrath, wrath into bitterness, bitterness into resentment, and resentment into unforgiveness. I choose whether these foul attitudes and emotions take up residency in my heart (mind, will, emotions) or are booted out the door!
There seems to be so much blaming in this world. Why do I make this point? Because we are often tempted to blame our bad attitudes, bitterness, resentments, or feelings of unforgiveness on other people. But the truth is, we are responsible for our own emotions and reactions!
If a person does something that has the potential to offend us, God holds us responsible for whether or not that offense takes root in our minds. We can choose to let it sink into our souls and take root, or we can opt to let it bypass us. We are not able to control what others do or say to us, but we are able to control what goes on inside of us.
I cannot allow weeds to spring up in my heart garden! Weeds grow too fast, and before I know it, they have taken over!
Hebrews 12:15 says, 'Looking diligently.…' It takes diligence to keep my heart in good shape. The only way I can stay free of the weeds my enemy wants to sow in my 'heart garden' is to be attentive, careful, thorough, and meticulous about the condition of my own heart. I can't expect others to take care of my heart for me, either. It’s my heart!
Lord, help me quit making excuses for the wrong attitudes I’ve permitted to grow in my life. I make the choice to repent, to turn from those destructive thoughts, and to replace them with thoughts and words of kindness for those who have caused me hurt or grief in the past.
(c) 2009 April Lorier
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes. ~ Chuck Swindoll



























